tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8170162627682469185.post8988043650412358573..comments2023-04-28T04:30:16.465-07:00Comments on Letters To The Stars: BIG issues - collab with Lou Loves and Marti Stelling.Trishhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18200894393399315325noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8170162627682469185.post-33379982895177634532016-04-17T09:07:28.190-07:002016-04-17T09:07:28.190-07:00You've been really brave writing about your ex...You've been really brave writing about your experiences, I'm sorry you went through such a traumatic experience with bullying , I can't stand bullies and I used to have a very similar life to that you describe but since I went to college life got better because everyone is so mcuh more ,mature and if your not bothering someone they wont bother you :) I really hope things get better for you, thank you for your bravery , think it's aboyut time somebody told the truth about bullying ! <br /><br />lots of love, Marianne xxx<br /><br />http://myhappybubblexx.blogspot.co.uk/DontBurstMyBubblehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18204063112052168962noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8170162627682469185.post-75112200960383557142016-04-14T23:55:23.668-07:002016-04-14T23:55:23.668-07:00you are so brave posting this! Such an inspiring p...you are so brave posting this! Such an inspiring post! Bullying is such a big & serious issue & there's a point where 'just ignore'ing them isn't enough xx<br /><br />Bethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01432236663798648629noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8170162627682469185.post-83405717855223212492016-04-14T02:34:54.170-07:002016-04-14T02:34:54.170-07:00Omg you are so totally right. It needs to stop. Pe...Omg you are so totally right. It needs to stop. People need to be raised to take care and value every human they meet and gah, bullying is cruel and horrible and I think sometimes the affects of it can be totally overlooked. Like you said "laugh, walk it off"...that's so true. Like people EXPECT thats just how bullying can be handled? But it really is still a knife and it destroys. :(CG @ Paper Furyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14954615708675952085noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8170162627682469185.post-81505373263267028092016-04-14T00:46:37.380-07:002016-04-14T00:46:37.380-07:00Thank you Lou. I agree, it's such a horrible t...Thank you Lou. I agree, it's such a horrible thing and people need to acknowledge it instead of shoving it under the carpet. Everyone cares, really. I did too!Aw thankyou lovely, it has been such a pleasure collabing with you.<br />El xxTrishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18200894393399315325noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8170162627682469185.post-68675395878546430492016-04-13T14:56:01.040-07:002016-04-13T14:56:01.040-07:00You know I've been through this too and I comp...You know I've been through this too and I completely get what you say, although I don't quite agree with the ending! I became obsessed with getting so over it it wouldn't affect me in any way, and it was SO WRONG because it felt like I couldn't escape it. It felt like a curse, like I was damned. But it's not a curse. It's a circumstance that has shaped a part of you, and: 1) You are much more than it and 2) You can't choose what happened to you, but you can choose what you make of it. You can choose your perspective. You can use it as a way to get higher. You can do whatever you want with it, and that's your power. It's not about neglecting it, it didn't do any good to me. It's about accepting it as a part of you. We're shaped by the things we've been through, but we're not defined by them. We have to stop seeing it as a burden. Only then will we find relieve!<br /><br />onmywayacqua.blogspot.com | Acqua xxAcquahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03647961405382325345noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8170162627682469185.post-16763907404286384742016-04-13T09:09:48.460-07:002016-04-13T09:09:48.460-07:00This post was incredible. You are so so brave for ...This post was incredible. You are so so brave for sharing this on your blog, and I really admire you for doing so. I have no idea why people say "Ignore them" - 1) it's impossible and 2) It doesn't help. Bullying is never as simple as ignorance, and people NEED to understand that. It just needs to stop.<br /><br />Lots of hugs,<br /><br />Alice xxxGirl Abroadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17551293119620313882noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8170162627682469185.post-27837406239140328222016-04-13T07:50:07.516-07:002016-04-13T07:50:07.516-07:00Such a wonderful and inspiring post. More people n...Such a wonderful and inspiring post. More people need to acknowledge this issue and tackle it, not just tell them to laugh it off or not care. At the end of the day, you do care, you care what people think of you - some advice is so unhelpful. I had such a great time working with you and Marti. You an 2 of the nicest most wonderful people and I couldn't have asked for nicer to people to work with. Lots of love, Lou xx<br /><br />LOU | www.louloves01.blogspot.co.ukLou Loveshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13412684538670630525noreply@blogger.com